3 Simple Mistakes Women Over 40 Make When Trying to Lose Weight
- nancy dehra
- 3 days ago
- 2 min read
(That Have Nothing to Do With Menopause)
When women hit their late 30s and early 40s, many start blaming every slow-down in their weight loss on “menopause is coming”.
But for most, the truth is much simpler — and way more fixable.
Hormones do play a role as we age, but most women aren’t actually in menopause yet. What feels like a hormonal problem is usually a combination of:
lower daily movement
almost no strength training
and eating slightly more calories than they think
Let’s break it down in the simplest way possible.
Mistake #1: Thinking Menopause Has Slowed Your Metabolism — When It’s Actually Low Movement
Before menopause, metabolism doesn’t suddenly crash.
What actually happens?
Lifestyle quietly changes.
Women over 40 often:
Sit more at work
Have more stress
Move less throughout the day
Sleep poorly
Exercise inconsistently
All of these directly reduce NEAT (non-exercise activity) — the calories you burn from everyday movement.
A drop in NEAT can reduce daily burn by 150–500 calories without you noticing.
That’s more than any hormonal shift.
Easy fix:
Aim for 7,000–9,000 steps/day
Break up sitting every 45–60 minutes
Do light movement after meals (10–15 min walk)
Track steps for one week — you’ll be shocked
Mistake #2: Avoiding Strength Training (The Biggest Metabolism Protector)
Women over 40 often avoid weight training because they fear:
“I don’t want to get bulky.”
“I just need cardio to slim down.”
“I’ll start after I lose the weight.”
But after 35–40, you naturally lose muscle every year if you’re not using it.
Less muscle = lower metabolic rate = easier weight gain.
Strength training is the MOST powerful tool to keep your metabolism youthful.
What 2–3 strength sessions/week do:
Boost metabolism
Improve insulin sensitivity
Tighten and reshape the body
Prevent joint pain
Make fat loss easier
Your strength-training basics:
2–3 full-body workouts/week
Focus on: squats, deadlifts, rows, hip thrusts, overhead press
Increase weight slowly, not the reps
You do not need heavy bodybuilding.
Just consistent, progressive strength work.
Mistake #3: Eating “Healthy Foods”… but More Calories Than You Realize
Women over 40 often eat “clean” but unintentionally overeat.
Common calorie traps:
Nuts
Peanut butter
Ghee
Cheese
Granola
Protein bars
“Healthy” smoothies
Snacks eaten unconsciously during cooking
Big portions of rice/rotis
Most women don’t have a hunger problem…
They have aportion awareness problem.
Easy fix:
1–2 protein-rich meals/day
Include veggies in 2 meals
Reduce mindless snacking
Keep 200–250 calorie “healthy snacks” to once/day
Use your hand for portion control
Track food for just 3 days to spot patterns
Once calories are aligned with your goals, results start almost immediately.
The Truth? It’s Not Your Hormones — It’s Your Habits.
For most women in their 40s, weight loss becomes easier when they focus on:
✨ Moving more
✨Lifting weights
✨Eating with awareness
Your metabolism isn’t broken.
It just needs the right inputs.

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